Crossing my fingers I'm gonna see proper Tops who don't pull out and yank off on their bottom guys back or bum hole. What I love about sharing my body is that when I'm attracted to someone to the extent that I wanna be inside them (or sometimes in me) is knowing how incredible it feels for another guy to share their DNA with you and how much I enjoy sharing my DNA with him. Sounds corny maybe or basic. But, if you think about the few times your chemistry is so intense that for what ever length of time you're in the present, in the moment feeling his lips , smelling his pains and crotch and neck. Giving and receiving incredible pleasure- the world disappears and when you've reached the point of that memory is in your DNA some will be absorbed into his body even. (That's why being on prep and getting checked every couple months is really important - also always insist on an "anal test" once a year especially if you mostly bottom. Because of covid I missed. Two smears. Now I've been diagnosed with state 4 Colon cancer that's everywhere. I know it's morbid but getting a pap is a necessity. ANYWAY ! So, I've shared my body and guys have shared their bodies with me, even if it was a hook up, there was love pr lust or both and unless you have an aversion to body fluids then don't pull out, enjoy that feeling that no one else can give you and them you in that moment.